Do you feel there isn't anything you excel in, although you may have a lot of talent at a lot of things? There is a difference between competency and being extraordinary. The way to be extraordinary is to take a little time to work on the talents that you already have so you can increase your skills and your confidence. Here are some smart ways to become extraordinary.
1. Focus on what you want to do. This is often the biggest problem that most people have. You probably can do a lot of things; the trick is to focus your efforts on one or two things so that you can be extraordinary in those two areas. Make a decision about what you want to do the most, so that you can start from a place of strength and focus on it.
2. Be honest about your ability. If you have weaknesses, you need to get real about them. Make a list about your weaknesses and your strengths. This way, when you have your weaknesses on paper, you can start figuring out how to minimize or eliminate them all together.
3. Get motivated. You can do this by listening to inspirational speakers, going to events where people are doing what you are aiming for, and by listening to good music. The important thing is that you start to feel like you can be a success and reach your goals. Anything that amps your spirits can be used to motivate you and push you forward.
4. Get a good mentor or coach. You need to find someone who has been where you are. A coach can help you prevent making mistakes he or she made in the past. Not only that, your coach can give you ideas and feedback about how to make yourself better and get even closer to your goal.
5. Set mini-goals for yourself. You have a big goal, or something you want to accomplish. To make it even more compelling, set little goals along the way. Not only does it take you toward your larger goal, but you get to feel satisfied when you reach those smaller goals. That satisfaction can keep you motivated to keep going.
6. Reward yourself. Every time you meet a goal, give yourself something great. It will be a time to celebrate making yourself proud, but it will also give you a reason to try to reach a new goal.
7. Find good people who are supportive. Supportive people will help keep you motivated, and be there to listen when you want to give up. It's always good to have people around you that care. They can be friends or relatives, but you can also find support in online forums.
Being extraordinary can be simple. All you need to do is to work hard and focus on what you want to become. If you take these tips and incorporate them into your life, you are going to find that your confidence rises and your skills become stronger; you will be extraordinary before you know it!
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